In the universe of female sexuality, there are a few holy grails. According to some, these experiences are completely mythical. In fact, some may think that getting 12 unicorns to pull Santa’ sleigh is more likely to happen than these pleasures ever occurring. What am I talking about? Well, vaginal orgasms, multiple orgasms and ejaculation.
Believe it or not, every woman can have them. So, ladies, sit back, relax and let us take a look at our erogenous zones and at how you can achieve ultimate pleasure!
EXPERIENCING DIFFERENT TYPES OF ORGASMS
A lot of women assume that multiple orgasms involve repetition. For example, several clitoral orgasms following on from each other in a row. And yes, that is correct, however, there is more to it. How, you may ask? Well, women can have several different types of orgasms (clitoral orgasm, G-Spot orgasms and cervical orgasms) in the same session.
So, the big question is, how do you know which types you’ve experienced? And how on earth do you master the ones that you have not experienced as yet? Let’s review the four most essential orgasms!
THE CLITORAL ORGASM
Out of all of the four female orgasms, the clitoral orgasm is the one that most are familiar with. The clitoris is a little power house of pleasure! It has 8000 nerve endings – which certainly brings a smile to my face! So, stimulating it, is a sure way to get a woman’s arousal going.
How do you stimulate this orgasm generator? With light, circular touches using a finger, tongue or sex toy – guaranteed to bring a woman over the edge. And what does it feel like other than pure heaven? Well like a surge of pleasure and accompanied by involuntary pelvic contractions.
What are the ideal adult pleasure toys for clitoral orgasms?
The first one is the ORA 2
This was the first ever pleasure product to win the prestigious Cannes Lions Award for design. And deservedly so. It is not only absolutely stunning to look at, but so incredibly pleasurable to use. Perfect for clitoral stimulation.
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My second recommended toy is the SONA
This mind blowing sex toy, uses sonic waves and pulses to stimulate the whole clitoris. It is a sexy toy, stunning to look at, and the perfect size for holding.
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THE GRÄFENBERG SPOT – KNOWN TO YOU AND I AS THE G-SPOT
The mystery of the G-Spot! So where can this power house be located? Does it actually exist? Well yes ladies, it certainly does!
The G-Spot is located 1-2 inches inside the vagina, on the anterior wall. When you place your fingers inside, feel for a curve with a ridged surface. If you have found this, then you’ve found the spot. Do not worry if you have never had a G-Spot orgasm (yet). Many women say that they have never experienced a G-Spot orgasm, so you are not alone. And believe me, it makes sense. In order to have this sort of orgasm, well, it requires openness, trust, and a willingness to let someone inside, physically and energetically.
G-Spot orgasms feel different from clitoral orgasms. They feel more like waves that keep on, um, dare is say, coming. Surges of pleasure spread throughout your entire body, starting from inside of the vagina.
Women often experience deep emotional releases while having these orgasms—tears, laughter, sadness. You do not have to worry, as this is all normal and good. You can purge emotions that have been stored in the vaginal tissue and release them. Using two fingers in a come hither motion, flicking them toward the G-Spot area for 10-30 minutes, will bring on these orgasms. They require some sexual stamina.
Alternatively, you can use the perfect toy for the G Spot orgasm which does exactly that!
The Mona is designed specifically to stimulate the G-spot and has that “come hither” motion which will have you climbing the walls with absolute delight. This gasm gadget won’t fade or lose stamina, and will have you screaming with joy. Experience a different, earth-moving orgasm. You certainly should explore and experience this pleasure, if you haven’t already.
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THE CERVICAL ORGASM
This orgasm is known as the queen of all female orgasms. So, what are the best sexual positions to achieve a cervical orgasm?
Well, the cervix – which connects the vagina with the uterus – is best accessed in positions like missionary, with a woman’s legs up over her shoulders. I presume a good few sessions of yoga and Pilates is necessary for this – neither of which, needless to say, I have done! Okay, so I did yoga once, but I felt so stressed by the end of my session, that I did not ever go back.
Anyway, the ‘trick’ is to supposedly ‘warm up’ in other sexual positions first, and then start to slowly stimulate the cervix, slowly building up intensity. The idea is to focus on relaxing into the sensations. I am told that you will certainly know you are nearing a cervical orgasm because you will start to feel intense emotions—euphoria, tears, sadness, bliss. I am absolutely convinced that this is true, especially after having one’s legs stretched up over your shoulders for a given amount of time would certainly have me in tears too – and I do not think from joy, that is for sure!
Another, and far more practical way to have sex in order to reach the C-Spot, is “cowgirl” style. Now, we are talking! Whether you straddle your partner, or you hop on to this delightful toy, it does not require your legs to be placed in any unimaginable and painfully uncomfortable position. I have discussed the Cowgirl in a previous article, so please have a read to see the pleasures of this stunning sex toy!
Last but not least, we have the INA Wave 2. This little gem of a toy, will revolutionize the way you think and experience pleasure. It definitely has the ability to make your orgasm quicker and far more intensely – deep within as well as clitoral.
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Women tend to experience a profound feeling of peace, ecstasy, and joy during cervical orgasms. These orgasms are experienced full-body, which basically means that the sensations that are often started at your genitals then spread throughout the entire body causing a magnificent feeling.
THE IMPORTANT LETTERS IN THE ALPHABET ONLY CONSISTS OF C, G, C AND PLENTY OF Os!
Despite living in a world where we are pressured to be perfection, remember, there is no such thing as perfection. Try not to fall into that pressurized unrealistic trap of being the most successful, being the richest, being the thinnest, being the fastest or being the most beautiful. It is all a load of nonsense.
In saying that, however, yes, sex toys are a wonderful way of guaranteeing an orgasm. They are certainly fun. But, for me, they are there to enhance your sex life, to spice up your sex life, to encourage communication between you and your partner and to spice things up a notch!
Yes, we would all love to have the most explosive, earth-shattering orgasm every time we have sex. The reality is, that this does not always happen. And if it doesn’t happen, that is okay too. Enjoy your lover. Enjoy that feeling of being loved and held and treasured. That feeling overrides everything else for me.
Would love to hear your thoughts!